118. The story of “Counseling Mind” I want to tell you now

Good morning. Kids’ specialist, Tetchan coach.

Today is about counseling mind.

This is not just about experts, such as counselors and psychiatrists.

Coaches, teachers, parents, etc. are the correspondence techniques that everyone should have, they are attentive.

With a bit difficult language,

“Listen”

“Acceptance”

“Unconditional positive interest”

There are many things like, but as flat

“I want to understand you”

 

“I want to hear your story”

It is the way of thinking, contacting.

I am a professional coach, I want to teach children something! I want to tell! It tends to become.

However, the protagonist is the opponent (child).

I would like children to listen first! I want you to see it! It is a mass of desire.

Make an atmosphere to make the other party easy to talk.

To listen carefully.

Then you will feel like I was admitted and can build a relationship of trust.

 

By the way, there are things that adults can find answers by themselves without having to talk.

Even if you do not completely solve it, you should lose heart!

To that end, attitude to listen to the story with the opponent as the leading role is important.

There should be someone who wants you to talk to others.

Let’s listen to the story of a person in front of me today!

 

I hope the day will be exciting today.

 

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